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5 Reasons Why Friendship is So Important for Mental Health and Happiness
June 30, 2024
Katherine Nestor


Friendship is one of the most essential components of a fulfilling life. Strong, supportive friendships can profoundly impact our mental health and overall happiness. Here are five reasons why friendship is so important:


1. Emotional Support and Stress Relief


Having friends to turn to in times of need provides a critical emotional support system. Friends listen, empathise, and offer comfort during stressful situations. This emotional support helps to reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. According to the Mayo Clinic, social support from friends can significantly reduce stress, increase feelings of self-worth, and promote resilience in the face of life's challenges.


2. Increased Happiness and Life Satisfaction


Friendships contribute greatly to our happiness and life satisfaction. Spending time with friends, sharing laughter, and creating memories can lead to increased levels of joy and fulfilment. Research published in the Journal of Happiness Studies found that people with strong social connections are generally happier and experience greater life satisfaction. Engaging in activities with friends, whether it's a casual coffee outing or a weekend getaway, enhances our overall sense of well-being.



3. Improved Mental Health


Friendships play a vital role in maintaining and improving mental health. Social interaction with friends can prevent feelings of loneliness and isolation, which are significant risk factors for mental health issues such as depression and anxiety. A study by the National Institute on Aging found that social isolation and loneliness are associated with a higher risk of developing conditions like depression, cognitive decline, and even cardiovascular disease. Friendships provide a sense of belonging and purpose, which are essential for mental well-being.



4. Better Physical Health


The benefits of friendship extend beyond mental health to physical health as well. Friends encourage healthy behaviours, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adherence to medical advice. According to Harvard Health, people with strong social ties are more likely to live longer, experience fewer health issues, and recover more quickly from illness. The positive influence of friends can motivate us to adopt and maintain healthy lifestyle choices, contributing to our overall physical health.



5. Personal Growth and Self-Improvement


Friendships can be a catalyst for personal growth and self-improvement. Friends challenge us to step out of our comfort zones, try new things, and pursue our goals. They provide constructive feedback and encouragement, helping us to learn and grow. The support and motivation from friends can lead to increased self-confidence and a greater sense of accomplishment. As noted by Psychology Today, friendships can help us develop important life skills, such as empathy, communication, and problem-solving.

Friendship is a cornerstone of a happy and healthy life. From providing emotional support and reducing stress to enhancing mental and physical health, the benefits of strong friendships are profound. As we navigate the complexities of life, maintaining and nurturing our friendships should be a priority. By valuing and investing in our friendships, we can enjoy a richer, more fulfilling life filled with joy, support, and mutual growth.


By understanding the importance of friendship and actively fostering these relationships, we can significantly improve our mental health and overall happiness. So, take the time to connect with your friends, cherish the moments you share, and build a supportive network that enriches your life in countless ways.



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How to support someone close to you struggling with addiction

By Katherine Nestor • July 31, 2024
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This can include exercise, hobbies, or social events that do not involve drugs or alcohol. Joining them in these activities can provide a supportive and non-judgemental environment. Participating in local events or outdoor activities, which are abundant in Australia, can be particularly beneficial. 6. Be Patient and Persistent Recovery from addiction is a long and often non-linear process. Your friend, family member or colleague may experience setbacks or relapses, which can be disheartening. It’s important to remain patient and persistent in your support. Celebrate their successes, no matter how small, and remind them that setbacks are a part of the journey, not a failure. 7. Seek Support for Yourself Supporting someone with an addiction can be emotionally taxing. It’s important to seek support for yourself as well. Consider joining support groups for friends and family of individuals with addiction, such as Al-Anon or Nar-Anon, which are available throughout Australia. 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Stay Informed About Relapse Prevention Understanding the triggers and warning signs of relapse can help you support your friend, family member or colleague in maintaining their recovery. Encourage them to develop a relapse prevention plan and to seek immediate help if they feel they are at risk of relapsing. Being aware of their triggers and helping them avoid high-risk situations can be crucial in their recovery process. Supporting a friend, family member or colleague struggling with addiction is a compassionate and challenging endeavour. By educating yourself, listening without judgment, encouraging professional help, setting boundaries, promoting healthy activities, and remaining patient, you can provide meaningful support. Remember, your friend, family member or colleague’s journey to recovery is their own, and your role is to offer encouragement and support along the way. Seeking support for yourself and understanding the complexities of addiction can further enhance your ability to help your friend navigate their path to recovery. If you need support We Lysn Mental Health Professionals are ready to have a session with you today, book here . Key Australian Resources for Addiction Support National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline : 1800 250 015 Alcohol and Drug Foundation (ADF) : www.adf.org.au Lifeline : 13 11 14 (24-hour crisis support and suicide prevention services) Al-Anon Family Groups Australia : www.al-anon.org.au

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By Katherine Nestor • July 15, 2024
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Mental Health of Indigenous Australians

By Katherine Nestor • June 30, 2024
NAIDOC Week 7-14 July, 2024, is a time for all Australians to come together and honour the rich history, culture, and achievements of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. As we reflect on this year's theme, "Keep the fire burning! Blak, Loud and Proud," which celebrates the unyielding spirit of our communities and invites all to stand in solidarity, amplifying the voices that have long been silenced, it's crucial to address a pressing issue that affects many Indigenous Australians: mental health. The State of Mental Health in Indigenous Communities Mental health issues are prevalent in Indigenous communities at disproportionately high rates compared to the general Australian population. According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW), Indigenous Australians are nearly twice as likely to experience high or very high levels of psychological distress compared to non-Indigenous Australians. Factors contributing to this disparity include historical trauma, socio-economic disadvantages, discrimination, and a lack of culturally appropriate mental health services. Cultural Factors and Historical Trauma The legacy of colonisation, including forced removals, dispossession of land, and suppression of culture, has had profound and lasting effects on the mental well-being of Indigenous peoples. Historical trauma continues to reverberate through generations, manifesting in higher rates of mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and substance abuse. Cultural factors play a significant role in the mental health of Indigenous Australians. Strong cultural identity and community connections are protective factors that promote resilience and well-being. However, the erosion of cultural practices and languages can contribute to a sense of loss and identity crises, exacerbating mental health issues. Barriers to Mental Health Care One of the significant barriers to accessing mental health care for Indigenous Australians is the lack of culturally competent services. Many mental health services are not designed with Indigenous cultural values and practices in mind, making them less effective or even alienating for Indigenous patients. The AIHW reports that only 27% of Indigenous Australians with mental health conditions access mental health services. Moreover, the stigma surrounding mental health in many Indigenous communities can prevent individuals from seeking help. Fear of judgement and a lack of understanding about mental health issues contribute to this stigma, further hindering access to care. Community-Based Approaches and Culturally Safe Services Addressing mental health in Indigenous communities requires a multi-faceted approach that incorporates cultural safety and community-based strategies. Programs that are designed and delivered by Indigenous people are more likely to be effective, as they are tailored to meet the specific cultural needs of the community. For instance, the Social and Emotional Wellbeing (SEWB) framework, developed by Indigenous health professionals, emphasises a holistic approach to mental health. This framework recognizes the importance of connection to land, culture, spirituality, family, and community in promoting mental health and well-being. Community-led initiatives, such as the Healing Foundation, work to address the impacts of trauma and intergenerational grief. These programs focus on healing through cultural reconnection, community empowerment, and building resilience. Government Initiatives and Policy Recommendations The Australian government has recognised the need for targeted mental health support for Indigenous Australians. The Fifth National Mental Health and Suicide Prevention Plan includes a specific focus on improving mental health outcomes for Indigenous Australians through culturally appropriate services and community-based approaches. However, more needs to be done to close the gap in mental health outcomes. Policy recommendations include increasing funding for Indigenous-led mental health programs, improving cultural competence training for all mental health professionals, and ensuring that Indigenous communities have a voice in the design and implementation of mental health services. NAIDOC Week 2024 provides an opportunity to highlight the importance of mental health for Indigenous Australians and the need for culturally safe, community-driven approaches to care. By acknowledging the unique challenges faced by Indigenous communities and supporting initiatives that promote cultural healing and resilience, we can work towards a future where all Australians have the opportunity to thrive, both mentally and emotionally.  References Australian Institute of Health and Welfare. (2020). Indigenous Mental Health. Retrieved from AIHW website Healing Foundation. (2021). Our Work. Retrieved from Healing Foundation website National Indigenous Australians Agency. (2021). Social and Emotional Wellbeing. Retrieved from NIAA website The Fifth National Mental Health and Suicide Prevention Plan. (2017). Retrieved from Department of Health website By addressing the mental health needs of Indigenous Australians through culturally competent and community-driven approaches, we can help pave the way for a healthier, more inclusive society.
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